Wedding Vows




Wedding vows are the words of promise and commitment a bride and groom make to each other during their wedding ceremony. Your wedding vows can be formal or informal depending upon the location you’ve chosen for your ceremony. For example, if you’re getting married in a church, you’ll have to go for the formal vows. However, if you exchange the vows at your home itself, well then you may try writing vows on your own.

Types of Wedding Vows and their Samples

There are traditional wedding vows, Christian vows, romantic vows and funny wedding vows. Below you will find the sample wedding vows for each of these categories.

Traditional Wedding Vows

Such vows start with an introduction by the officiant, such as:

“Dearly beloved, we have gathered here in front of God, and his worshippers to join together this man and this woman in a sacred matrimonial bond."

Once the introduction is over, the officiant may ask the couple a few questions which they need to answer in the affirmative.

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Christian Wedding Vows

If you’re a Christian, you may want to exchange purely Christian wedding vows. In a Christian wedding ceremony, the priest usually asks questions to the bride and groom. He asks the bride and groom as to whether each of them takes the other one as their husband and wife respectively. The bride and groom are expected to answer the questions in the affirmative. Given below is a sample Christian wedding vow.  

I love you _____________ (name of wife), as I love no other person. I take you to be my wife through health and sickness, joy and sorrow, forever and always.

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Romantic Wedding Vows

Romantic vows are the ones that reveal your love and feelings for the person you have chosen to be your partner. If you’d like to draft romantic vows on your own, you can take inspiration from songs of movies and poems. Consider the works of famous romantic poets like John Keats and William Blake when writing romantic vows by yourself. A sample of a romantic wedding vow is given here.

When I first met you, I knew you were special. I knew you are the one with whom I have always wanted to spend my life. You have inspired my heart and mind. It is you who have shown me a new way to lead my life. I promise to love and respect you forever through all conditions of health and sickness.

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Funny Wedding Vows

Funny vows have an entertaining tone. But they reflect deep faith and eternal love. If you’d like to take funny vows, take the officiant’s permission as he may not agree to allow such vows. Check out sample wedding vows that are funny and humorous.

Bride’s vow:
I, _______________ (name of bride), promise to love and cherish you. I shall always provide you with good food and snacks till you let me handle your credit card.

Groom’s vow:
I, _____________ (name of groom), promise to love and treasure you forever. I shall never forget the birthdays and anniversaries unless there is a soccer tournament going on.

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Tips for Writing Wedding Vows on Your Own

You may write your own wedding vow, but make sure you get it checked by your marriage officiant before you read them out during your ceremony. Your wedding vows should speak about true love and commitment. Given below are a few tips for writing wedding vows on your own.

Choose a central idea

Some people prefer highlighting the concept of romantic love in their wedding vows. However, you may try something different and focus on the concept that you won’t be able to spend the rest of your life without your partner.

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Explain your central idea

Once you decide upon the central idea, try to elaborate it. Think why you love your fiancé so much and what’s so special about her. Just write down your thoughts as if you’re speaking to your beloved. This will help you keep the flow of statements natural.

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Use action verbs

Whether your wedding vows are traditional, religious or non-traditional, you should use action verbs to emphasize how best you’ll work to make your marriage successful. For example, you may use words like “attend to your needs”, “encourage”, “plan our future”, “be your ally” and “face the challenge”. However, you should avoid using very Old English as it may not appeal to the young guests attending your ceremony.

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Read out your vows loud

Once you’ve prepared the statement of the vows, you should read it loud and make sure you find it appealing. That’s because if it doesn’t appeal to you, there’s less chance of others liking it.

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How to prepare a draft of your wedding vows

Here’s how you should draft the statement of the vows you’ll exchange with your bride.

Introduction:

In this part of your wedding vows, you should include a salutation part like “My dearest love” followed by the entire introduction. This is where you can express your feelings for your fiancé.

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Main body of the vows:

Here, you can mention how important this wedding is to you. In addition, you can speak about how your partner has changed your life since you’ve met her.

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Concluding part:

This is where you can speak about how you wish to be happily married to your fiancé and what you expect from your beloved spouse.

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Wedding vows are promises you’d like to keep when you are in a marital relationship. You should certainly want your vows to be unique and your wedding ceremony to be a memorable one. So, choose the words that reflect how deeply you love your partner and how much committed you are toward her. However, what’s more important than just reading out your vows is to stand by your commitment to your partner.

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