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Dating is the initial stage of a successful romantic relation. It is during this time you get the opportunity to know each other closely. Given below are some dating tips for both men and women to help you date like a pro and also avoid any dating faux pas that can lead to a romantic debacle. |
Dating tips for women
Plan ahead: When you are going out with a guy you like do some homework about him. It will help you get his attention during the meeting. Find some common topics to talk about and don’t be shy to share your opinion. Be attentive to what he says and reply accordingly. Be a good listener.
Control your emotions: Women are emotional by nature but don’t expect too much on your first date. Take things in a more casual manner and don’t lose confidence if the date doesn’t go right.
Be honest: If you are looking for a serious relationship take your date seriously. Honesty is the cornerstone of a quality relation and so don’t go out just to have fun. Date only a guy who is genuinely interested in you. Be honest about yourself as well.
Get his attention: Don’t settle for anything less than his full attention. If he doesn’t show sincerity to listen to you or have no plans for the date, move on. He may not be genuinely interested in you. Look for signs of his interest like if he asks for your opinion, listens to you carefully and maintain eye contact with him.
Act maturely: Don’t get carried away with emotion. This is only a date so don’t start planning for a marriage at once. Save your life’s history for some later date. Men value intelligence and it is your opportunity to show your worth.
Be yourself: Being yourself is the best thing you can do on a date. Choose a dress that you are comfortable in. Maintain your best behavior and give honest information about yourself. Don’t go out of your way to impress your date. Men are clever enough to figure out if you are being phony.
Play equal: Don’t expect the guy to pay all the bills. Take initiative in ordering food and drink and offer to share the bill. Show him that you are an independent woman who is prepared to take responsibilities. Modern men do appreciate this quality in women.
Be intelligent: Think before you speak. Intelligence, humor and wit are the three qualities in women that men can’t overlook. If you are intelligent and knowledgeable your date will surely appreciate it. Avoid discussing too many personal things. If you are a working woman, talk about your work and aspirations.
Appreciate him: Appreciate him when he trudges that extra mile to make you feel special, like a small gift or a flower, despite its monetary value. It will soothe his shaken confidence.
Avoid ex-talks: Keep you past buried. Here you’re looking at a fresh opportunity to start a relationship. Wait to discuss these events when your relation matures as by then you will have an idea how he will react to the topic.
Part amicably: At the end of the date thank him for the nice evening and part amicably. Don’t attach too much hope to it. You can drop him a message saying just how much you enjoyed his company. Allow him the time to make his mind too.
Dating tips for men
Groom yourself: Often women complain about men not being well dressed in dates. Yes, women do judge men through their attire. So, shave, shampoo, bath and wear the best outfit for the date. Maintain your best behavior as well.
Be confident: Remember she will also be nervous. So, be confident. You can only act your best when you are confident. Try to learn something about her so that you get an idea about her character and personality.
Plan ahead: Women appreciate organized men. So, plan ahead for your date. Reserve a table at the restaurant or get movie or concert tickets to avoid any last minute confusion.
Be sincere: Be a patient listener and show your sincerity towards her. Women can understand when you’re not serious. Take the lead in opening a discussion and value her opinion on the matter.
Avoid personal question: The first few dates should be taken lightly. Avoid asking the predictable questions. Rather, discuss about topics that interest you both. This will give you an opportunity to judge your mental adjustment.
Don’t brag: Don’t brag too much about your professional life and its achievements. This may bore her to death and also create an image of a person who only values money. Women appreciate men with a romantic bent of mind.
No office: Keep your cell phone silent or switched off. Don’t let your office come in the way of your romantic day. Give your date full attention.
Be courteous: Be on time and pick her up from her place. Hold the door open or push the chair for her. Women do notice these small things. Act responsibly and be protective. These will let her feel secure and confident about you.
Be honest: Be honest and don’t lie about who and what you are. If you like her genuinely don’t hesitate to tell that. It will make her feel confident about you.
Compliment her: Compliment on her dress. If she is looking good compliment her on her look as well. Women love appreciation and complimenting her beauty is the best way to win her heart. If she has got beautiful eyes, do mention that as well.
Get a gift: Don’t go empty handed in a date. Get her a small gift like a bouquet, a rose, a box of chocolates, perfume, or a charm bracelet. She will feel prized by your thoughtfulness.
Follow up: After the date, drop her at her place. If she also seems genuinely interested in you, ask when you can meet next. Follow up with a sweet goodnight or a thank you message. If you think she needs time to think over it, don’t push the matter and give her the time.
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