Women do it quite easily but men are not very comfortable with it!! Before you get any more ideas, let me make it clear that I am talking about committing one’s love in a relationship. It is a common fact that though women find it easier to announce and confess their love, men find it difficult to utter those three magical words of “I Love You” or in other words men are not very much comfortable in exhibiting their love through these words as uttering these words would
simple mean that they are very much committed in their relationship. And their dilemma increases all the more when their girlfriends say these words and then expect the same from them.
Sometimes it may happen that the man is waiting for the right moment to say these words to his beloved and is not at all ready to face such a situation where he would have to say the words without any thinking. So if you are also a part of this group and are looking for ways of escaping this situation, then you surely need to read the following tips and ideas, which can help you in doing so.
If you don’t want to say those three words but at the same time want to assure your partner of your love then you can simply say something safe, which will not hurt her feelings and would also help you in escaping the dilemma of saying the words. For example you could say “I really care for you” and “You are the most important person in my life”. Though your girlfriend may be a little upset by your not saying the words but she would really understand your feelings after hearing the words.
If you don’t want to be in the relationship at all then the best way would be to take help of the tried and tested way of getting emotional. Even shed some tears if you want to. Believe me! Your girlfriend would be scared to ask you this question second time. But make use of this way only if are determined that you don’t want to say those words to her.
Tell her that you have been hurt earlier and are thus shy of saying those words. This is an argument, which no girl can ever argue. Even if she tells you that she is not like your earlier girlfriend, then also she cannot force you to say those words after hearing this argument of yours. In fact this excuse can buy you several weeks of avoiding the situation.
Create a situation to distract her at the moment. Try creating some mess, which can occupy her attention at that particular moment. This would get you more time of thinking of some excuse of coming out of the situation.
So get creative and think of new and interesting ways of escaping the question of not saying those three words.
